Maybe it’s just me, but i wonder what it’s like to have someone fall for you. I mean really in love with you, not just because they think you’re attractive but be consumed with every little piece of you. The way you talk, the way you laugh, the way you just exist.
You might not be the guy that used to be naughty, those guys that used to hold booties of a lady to exchange pleasantries, those that used to have big boy pride after exchanging a kiss with a lady.
This doesn’t mean you are not sexually attractive but does mean you are classically reserved as a man.
Nothing wrong with being soft for your girl, that’s your girl right? step outta your comfort zone and do some corny shit once in a while just to get a blush or smile from her.
Social media ruin a lot of shit saying that’s wack or that’s headass, only you control your relationship.
Speaking of public reservation, that should be your utmost pride, that should be the value and ethics that makes up your personality…. Not common ways to get a chick, either you call it a main chick or side chick, the fact is that it’s still a chick.
I don’t say everyone should remain reserved, because this life is like a dress, you will wear the one that suits you. At least it has worked for many and that will always give us a typical example to point out to.
In essence, Try to be a man for classic ladies with smart brain genes, not a “chick” that is meant as food for the eagles. Think like a man, don’t ever think like an eagle that want chick as one of its best meal.
You are a man, you deserve more than a chick, you worth more of a lady that can grill or fry well cooked chicken for you. A rare stereotype of a woman.
You may look dump for being reserved as guy but trust me, they would surely long for what they could not appreciate when it’s available at their finger tips.
I hope you find someone who doesn’t make you sad at night and someone who reminds you how much they love you every day and who laughs at your jokes. Someone who wants to listen to your music and who genuinely wants to be with you. I really hope you find that one, because you deserve that and I pray it won’t be a chick.
Olagunju Oluwaponmile F.*
(aka) Mr_Folap
