When I go into a relationship, I go and start with a very high standard for me and the girl. Mo baje gaan.
That’s why I love friendship turned relationship. You understand person A so well that you have a plan X in your head to move person A from point A to point Z.
Plan doesn’t have to be perfect, that’s what makes everything spontaneous and unpredictable and beautiful.
For me, that’s the best type of relationship.
You understand what your partner should be and want. You understand the principles of giving space. You won’t have problems.
In most cases, both of you decide to walk away at the end of the tunnel at the same time most likely because things just won’t continue. There won’t be a case of just one person walking away when the other is still very much willing to try.
So when I go into a relationship, my actions are me telling my girl_ look, I know I’m not the best out there, but I’m going to give you feelings these guys can’t buy you with money. So for as long as you’re still willing to try, you’re the world I live in. Forget it.
Or maybe I’ve been smart. I’m never attached to a girl that wants me to put her in front of a Mercedes at this stage of my life.
She’s focused on buying her own Mercedes.
So even if an inevitable walk away happens in a time unknown. Girl ain’t going back a nigga below.
And as for me, it’s all about building and not catching feelings for another when you’re still with another. That’s what makes a nigga successful.
Good morning, bubble butt. Love you!
Akingbade Ademide
