Parents Pressure “the Future”
I don’t know if it is African, Nigerian or Yoruba parents that are the problem. Please children are not thrift contributions or a business plan you expect profit from.
I’m not saying parents shouldn’t benefit from children but it shouldn’t be a burden, the kids didn’t put pressure on you to raise them too.
I see lot of children going through the conventional way of going to school > NYSC > Job > Family of your own > repeat the sequence. Oh I forgot, you start getting responsibilities from your finals in University.
If you don’t want this, be ready to assist your Mom in looking for your real Father.
To me, Life is complete when it is given and the purpose is determined i.e you give a life (give birth) and you let the person find out the purpose in life.
Will your child look back and be happy with how well you have assisted his dream or will your child always complain about choosing a career for them?
Awon daddy lo fe kin di Doctor, mommy lo fe kin lo si OAU.
TREAT YOUR CHILD LIKE A PET AND NOT A LIVESTOCK.